This is something I have been thinking about for a while now, even before I got pregnant with Dagney. I lack in the friend department big time! I have those 4 really close friends that I talk to a lot, but those close friends all live either a 2 hour drive away or in another province so our communication is restricted to sending e-mails or talking on Skype.
I am a loser to say the least! Seriously I really am. I don't do anything with anyone at all really and it stinks. So I am trying to figure out how to make friends that actually are interested in the same stuff as me, maybe not everything, but some what. You need that connection or personality trait that is close to yours so you can hit it off. I feel like I am talking about finding a husband to marry(Found him already thank goodness! lol). But seriously I have a hard time making friends or finding them at this age. No one views things the same as I do, cares about things like I do. All I seem to find is woman or men so consumed by STUFF and THINGS and spending money. I don't have money nor do I want to get my nails done, hair done, spend all my waking life at the mall buying clothes or other items I don't need.
I guess it just goes to show you that the few friends I do have should be cherished! They all mean the world to me, especially a specific one. <3
I feel exactly, literally exactly the same way, I cannot find anyone who views things the same way I do. I wish you lived closer cuz I'd be your friend!
ReplyDeleteYup I feel the same way! I had two really close friends from highschool and college but for whatever reason we have grown apart. Now my closest friend is I guess my co-worker who is also on mat leave but we still only see each other maybe once a month. It's lonely!
ReplyDelete